Single for Valentine's Day? Normally here at Evil Slutopia, we'd just tell you "Who cares!? Valentine's Day is bullshit"... (and well, we will tell you that in a few days anyway). However, today we thought we'd maybe help you do something about it instead.
There's always the option to join Match.com or e-Harmony or one of those typical dating sites, but it's safe to assume that if you're reading the Evil Slutopia blog that you're probably not e-Harmony material. Lucky for you there are so many other "alternative" options for Internet dating nowadays, in case you do want to try to find that special someone online.
First of all, there is chemistry.com, which is slowly becoming famous thanks to their commercials about how eHarmony rejects people for mysterious or arbitrary reasons (you know, like being gay). There is also Perfectmatch.com which has been described as an eHarmony alternative for those who aren't necessarily marriage-oriented.
There are also highly specific sites now that cater to every niche category you could possibly think of. There are the obvious ones such as race, religion, and sexual orientation. Then there are the slightly more specific ones like political affiliation, marital status, age, and occupation. Also physical disabilities, dietary restrictions, medical health and body type. And of course, there are a slew of hobby and activity-oriented subsections of the population. Then it gets even more extra-specific by combining two or more of the above categories, until it reaches the point of ridiculousness.
The basic premise of most of these sites is to find someone who is "compatible" with you - that is shares similar interests, beliefs, lifestyle or background. Of course, this makes the assumption that being exactly alike necessarily means you are compatible. (I thought that sometimes opposites attract?) On the other hand, there are sites that match people not by identical interests, but by "complimentary" interests. Take WealthyMen.com for example: this site pairs wealthy men (duh) with women who... want to date wealthy men. Total compatibility. (Of course, they could just call it "golddiggers.com" but to each his own).
I'm not sure what I think is the best solution when it comes to online dating - sites with huge networks of random miscellaneous people or highly specific niche sites with little carbon copies of yourself. But just in case any of our readers wanted something a little different from the boring generic e-Harmony and e-Harmony-rip-off sites out there... we thought we'd give you a glimpse into the world of alternative niche online dating.
The sites we've listed were chosen because we read that they have been reviewed favorably or because we just liked the name or because we think it's funny/cool/odd/interesting that this particular website exists. (You can guess which ones fit which reasons). Listing a site here does not imply or suggest that we endorse or recommend the site. Also, since this is hardly a comprehensive list and we've left a lot out, if you have a weird fetish or hobby and want to find your "match" do your own alternative-dating sites search.
Happy hunting!
Race/Ethnicity
- Asian Friend Finder
- Italiano Singles
- Desikiss (for Indian singles)
- Amigos (for Latino singles)
- Afroconnections (for Black/African American singles)
- InterracialMatch.com
Religion
- Jdate (the most famous of the many sites for Jewish singles)
- Muslim Matrimonials Network
- mypraize (which calls itself a "Christian myspace alternative")
- Secularity.com (for atheists and "secular thinkers")
Sexual Orientation/Gender Identity
- Gay.com
- Pink Cupid (Lesbian dating)
- TransPassions
- Bisexual Chat Line
Political views
- Dating Democrats
- Republican Singles
- Act for Love (for progressive activists)
- Concerned Singles (for "socially conscious" singles)
Physical disability/impairment
Age
- Seniors Circle
- Prime Singles
- AgeMatch.com (which calls itself an "intergenerational" site because it specializes in matching people with large age differences)
Dietary Restrictions/Philosophies
Family/Marital Status
- Single Parent Mingle
- Divorced Passions
- Ashley Madison (specializes in pairing couples up for extramarital affairs)
- You and Me Swing (for swingers)
Occupation/Vocation
Financial Status
- Dating for Debtors
- MillionaireMatch.com
- Sugar Daddie (you can just guess what this one is for)
Health Conditions/STD-Status
- Positive Singles
- MatchSTD
- Herpes Mates
- Prescription4love(for people with various chronic conditions such as diabetes, cancer, etc)
Size
- Tall Friends
- Large Friends
- BBW DateLink (in case you didn't know it, "BBW" stands for "Big Beautiful Women")
Dwarf Date
Athletics
Pet Owners/Animal Lovers
- Date My Pet
- Animal Attraction (even though this sounds like a soft-core beastiality site, it's actually just for pet lovers)
- Equestrian Cupid
- Single Dog Owners
Anything else you could possibly think of
- Tattooed Singles
- Biker Kiss
- GothicMatch.com
- Geek to Geek
- Love4Losers
- Trek Passions (by "Trek" they mean Star Trek)
- Trip Life (they offer "airtroductions" for frequent travelers to meet people and make the most of their downtime between flights, etc.)
- Alt.com (for BDSM and fetish personals)
- Nudist Passions
Why haven't we started "EvilSlutConnection" yet?








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